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In an ideal world, sex between two consenting adults is pleasurable for both parties, and you leave sex feeling satisfied and happy.
If your partner is selfish in bed, it may not always be their fault
Maybe they need to practice! Maybe you need to better communicate what makes you feel good so that they can work their technique.
You can almost always tell if your partner is making an effort. Berit Brogaard, D. Most of us need some kind of foreplay before sex in order for it to feel good.
The same survey revealed that Not cool. This may also look like them getting upset and pouting when you finish with a vibrator or by yourself, because they didn't have a part in your orgasm. There is, of course, a chance that your partner may not know how to pleasure you, and even if you give them suggestions, they could be timid. At the same time, they expect their requests to be met with enthusiasm, seriousness, and follow-through.
Not fair! Fantasies can get tricky.
If you and your partner are both happy and satisfied by having sex the same way every time, by all means, go forth and prosper. They might just not know how to switch positions. Maybe they only feel confident doing it one way.
Be patient, and work with them slowly. Sometimes, starting slow is the best way to go.
5 s your partner is selfish in bed—and how to approach communicating about it in each case
It feels as if you're being used as a prop for your partner's get-off. Is it that it scares you? We do recommend getting in bed, putting your phone on airplane mode, and enjoying sex.
This isn't about having sex with you, but getting sex in return for treating you well. Keep that in mind when moving forward. Being on the same with your partner makes your relationship stronger.
And since sex is a big part of any healthy relationship, communication is key. By Veronica Lopez. Updated: November 15, Originally Published: March 7, Updated by Elite Daily staff. Search Close.